“Why Can’t You Just Deal with It?” – Joshua Rothman (New Yorker)
“A version of this dynamic may explain why we can’t deal with our biggest problems. Hamlet, famously, vows revenge on his uncle, Claudius, for the murder of his father—but then he dithers, delays, and generally goes crazy, only killing Claudius at the very end of Shakespeare’s longest play. Literary scholars have written essay after essay remarking on Hamlet’s delay, and he has been widely understood as a flawed person, too melancholy and intellectual to do what he’s decided to do. Yet, arguably, this is a bizarre view. Yes, in a narrow sense, Hamlet has concluded that he needs to kill his uncle—but in a broader, “all things considered” sense he’s reluctant to become a killer himself. This is an entirely sane way of behaving; it’s how we ourselves would hope to behave. It’s only within the confines of a revenge thriller that Hamlet’s actions seem odd”
https://www.newyorker.com/culture/open-questions/why-cant-you-just-deal-with-it